Reflecting: How Travel Reawakens Your Passions

Extended travel offers an inspiring break for more than just those stuck in a rut in their career. It is also great for those who need to recharge their lives – like Teresa Gotay and Mike Tieso from Art of Backpacking. They share with us how travel reawakened their passions and set them on their life paths.

TERESA:

Teresa Gotay

When life give you lemons, you don't always have to make lemonade. What if you're in the mood for iced tea? You envision your life to go one way, and it ends up another. All my life, I envisioned a cookie cutter lifestyle of going to school, starting my career and getting married before the age of 25. As my 24th birthday recently passed, I have yet to complete any of the three.

In early 2008, in my Senior year at St. John's University, I lacked financial aid, decent credit and the motivation to finish school. For years, I was surrounded by the notion that you had to finish school as soon as possible before the rat race began. After working countless 9-5 jobs, bartending in between, moving in and out of many apartments in New York City, my life battery needed a recharge.

2010 became the year of travel and self-discovery. I spent 5 months traveling through South America getting a taste of the backpacking experience. It left me with a craving for more and the appreciation of people, culture and travel.

At times, I felt guilty for going on a grand adventure with baggage back home. But, I never felt so motivated and spiritually awakened by the sights of new places, the experiences with new people and the new-found adoration for my life sabbatical. It was the right time and just what I needed to get back on track.

As an aspiring writer; uniting my love for travel and writing brought me to Art of Backpacking as a way to channel this experience. Working with my longtime friend Mike, who embarked on his own journey in 2009, became the vibrant equation for a site dedicated to illustrating the Art of what else? Backpacking!

MIKE:

Mike Tieso

The greatest ideas can come from the even the most ironic spaces. A few years ago, I was enjoying my normal lifestyle; watching television at home with family. I got caught up watching “A Map for Saturday”; a pivotal documentary for backpackers to get the ideal glimpse of a world that would change my life.

There it was; my inspiration to see the world and travel. It seemed so far fetched as I was not yet a college graduate, but working full time at in the Corporate world of UPS. Stuck in the middle of student loans, car payments, credit card bills and one expensive lifestyle. And what worse way to realize this than in a cubicle; with my boring routine lifestyle that saw neither versatility nor exciting escapes.

Like any normal 20something; I enjoyed the nightlife and having fun. If I knew then what I knew now, I could have been backpacking for years! One small decision led me to quit my job and sell all my possessions, eliminate debt, and save over $10,000 to travel for 11 months.

Fast forward to May 2009 where I took off to Beijing, China to embark on a journey that would change me to my inner core. It became second nature traveling on a whim through Asia, Australia and South America; as if I've been doing it all my life. Traveling gave me identity, meaning and focus to give my life value and much needed color. I'm even returning to China this August (2010) to teach English for a year.

Opportunities to travel are possible and not unattainable. When you're passionate about something; you find ways to make it happen. Sometimes you need a change of pace to truly discover what your life goal is. Mine is to travel and to share that love of travel with the world.

As good friends with the love of travel; we can agree that Art of Backpacking is our melting pot of thoughts, ideas and inspiration to provide to others who want to do as we've done. As young individuals, we reiterate the idea that it's okay if you need a break. Don't feel guilty for opening your eyes to what the world has to offer. There is no better time than right now!

Art of Backpacking will be co-hosting our Meet, Plan, Go! event in Philadelphia.



8 Responses to “Reflecting: How Travel Reawakens Your Passions”

  1. Sofia Says:

    great post! I LOVE the finishing words: There is no better time than right now!! So true, and motivating as well ;)

  2. Andi Says:

    Very inspiring!!!!!!!

  3. Jaime Says:

    I can really relate to "If I knew then what I knew now, I could have been backpacking for years!" I have never been backpacking but have always had a passion for travel & I didnt know how cheap it really is to travel. Thanks to blogs like yalls that I LOVE I got the motivation I needed to start getting everything together. I have been planning for a few months and if everything goes as planned in less than a year I will be setting off on my 1st RTW trip. I actually started a blog to document my thoughts and planning as I go along.

    Stories like this are what keep me motivated to make it happen.

    Thanks

  4. Keith Says:

    Good job guys!

  5. Erin Says:

    Keep posting these stories, I"m hoping the more I read, the more it will motivate me to get moving and fulfill my dream.

  6. Michaela Potter Says:

    Erin - We have already told many great stories and will continue to keep posting them. The key is that the more people are inspired to follow their dreams, the more stories we will have to share! If you are looking for more in person inspiration, be sure to see if there will be a Meet, Plan, Go! event in your city. And if you are serious about fulfilling your dream, Basic Training may be the help you need. Hopefully down the road we will be sharing your story!

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  8. Chels Says:

    I love these inspirational posts. Where was your favorite place and where did you first go when you decided to make the break from the grind?



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  1. Leah on Mon, 6th Jun 2011 8:12 am 

    I really enjoyed reading your post. I am thirty-two soon and have itchy feet that are ready to try out foreign soils.
    It is a fear of leaving the security of the day to day grind of paying the bills and living a safe and non-challenging way of life that has put me on hold for some time.
    I hope (as it has I) your post will inspire others to go and follow their bliss – Leah 🙂

  2. Patricia GW on Mon, 6th Jun 2011 8:54 am 

    Travel and experiencing a new culture really has put it into perspective, and filled that void with purpose (and joy).

    In three weeks I’ll be moving to Paris myself for one month. I have the same feeling – the incredible surreal realization that I’m going to be living there…. it’s thrilling!!

  3. Abby on Mon, 6th Jun 2011 2:11 pm 

    Oh, Jenny! Escargot isn’t palatable — it’s delicious! I love your writing style; it’s so fun and energetic. Can you believe how far we’ve come? Everyone, Jenny and I were in the exact same industry and have known each other online and via work emails for years and years. But we’ve only met once, many, many years ago. And one of those jobs she was sleeping next to her BlackBerry for was one I’d just left. And now she’s 33 and living abroad, just like I was last year. Kindred spirits. Jenny, you’re a true inspiration — I can’t wait to see how your adventure unfolds!

  4. Debbie Beardsley on Mon, 6th Jun 2011 3:22 pm 

    Your life in Paris sounds ideal. It is nice to read about people who follow their dreams instead of wishing they had! Enjoy the rest of your journey.

  5. Terriaw on Tue, 7th Jun 2011 1:40 pm 

    Wow, fabulous and well said! I love your new outlook on like. After experiencing career burnout and feeling a little lost and purposeless lately, you have encouraged me. I look forward to seeing Paris someday!

  6. Jenny on Tue, 7th Jun 2011 6:50 pm 

    merci for all the sweet comments! @abby we are soooo kindred spirits! well except when it comes to our differing feelings on escargot…;) and congrats patricia on the move! thrilling indeed!

  7. shawna on Thu, 9th Jun 2011 1:32 am 

    you’ve reawakened my travel bug. must. return. to. france. (someday.) eat a croissant for me!

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  9. G. Michael Schneider on Sun, 19th Jun 2011 3:36 pm 

    I am a firm believer in living and working overseas, just as you described. However, many of us actually like our jobs and our homes and are simply looking to renew and refresh our lives, not change it. However, you can have the same type of cultural experience without having to reach into your own wallet and without having to quit your day job–by taking what I call a “working vacation.” My wife and I have done this 15 separate times, from Australia to Zimbabwe, Turket to Tibet, Mauritius to Mongolia. I describe how to do it in my blog otherguysdime.wordpress.com and via Twitter at @otherguysdime. Learn how to have fun without having to have burn any of your bridges behind you.

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