When I was preparing to run my first marathon in 1998 I started telling all of my family and friends about it; even though I had never run more than 10 miles at that point and really had no idea if I would be able to do the marathon or not. Yet I proudly told people that I would be running 26.2 miles in a little over 3 months.
When I started considering moving to Vietnam in 2008 I started to slowly mention to people that I would be moving to Saigon to teach for a year. I would hear and see their reactions and tuck them away in my brain. I wasn’t too confident yet that I would be moving – but I continued to spread the Vietnam-expat message in order to see how it felt to say me hear the words aloud.
Now I’m presented with a chance to move to Jordan next year. I’ve noticed that I occasionally tell people this when they ask what I’m going to do next. I tell them I’m considering a move to Jordan in 2012 – yet I haven’t fully made up my mind, I just want to hear what it sounds like when I say it.
Verbalizing Goals Is Powerful
Basically – I like to try big goals on for size; verbalize them, and then listen to what they sound like. Does it sound good? Does it roll off my tongue? How do I feel when I say it? What are people’s reactions?
Many goals dance around in our heads, but once you actually verbalize them it’s different – they move from your head into sounds. Sounds other people hear, digest, and remember.
It’s like seeing a great pair of jeans on the rack that look perfect – and then you go try them on and realize they make your ass look big and they go back on the rack. Sometimes you need to try your goals on for size. See what they look like and how they feel. Do they flatter you, or do they make you feel uncomfortable? What do others think about them?
This is what I recommend people do when it comes to their career break or travel goals. I know you dream of seeing the Pyramids, volunteering in India, or living in Bangkok, but have they been verbalized yet? Have you ‘tried them on’?
Try It On For Size – Say It Aloud
You can do it. Just let the words come out of your mouth in the privacy of your home…
“I’m going to take a career break and travel.”
How does it feel to allow the words to come out of your mouth? Liberating? Scary?
Now – go to your trusted friend and say it.
Next, go to a stranger at a Meet, Plan, Go! meetup and say it.
By stating your goal – you are more likely to do it.
This is one of the reasons we hold Meet, Plan, Go! events in your city; you can meet and talk to others about your travel goals – A supportive community who is more than happy to help you ‘try your goal on’.
Once you say it, it sounds good, it feels liberating; this is only the first step. Next start taking actions to plan that career break or sabbatical. What’s that? You don’t know where to start?
Hold On Before You Feel Defeated
Consider signing up for the Career Break Basic Training class. It will lead you over the hurdles and through the process of planning and taking a meaningful career break or sabbatical; from the contemplation and preparation to on-the-road and re-entry. Plus, you’ll have support along the way from a group of people who all hold your same goals to travel.
And in the vain of trying before you buy – here’s a free checklist that we provide our participants in the Basic Training Class. Go ahead. Download it. Try it on. See if you like it. If you do – then consider signing up for the Basic Training class and community to equip yourself with the tools to achieve your goal.
Try it on…verbalize it…and then move in the direction of your travel dreams.
Attendees of our October 18, 2011 Nationwide Event will receive a discount on membership to Career Break Basic Training.