Sherry Ott
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Relocating around the country, raises, stock options, graduating from a cube to an office, getting my first assistant - these were the highlights of my life in corporate America. I managed my career to continuously provide more income, more recognition, and more responsibility. Isn’t this what every single female without kids is supposed to do? After 12 years of climbing the ladder, I realized, maybe it wasn’t what I was looking for after all; instead I wanted to climb Kilimanjaro.
I got my first passport when I was 30 years old and went to Turkey, an ambitious trip for the first time out of the country. That’s when it happened – I caught it – the desire to travel. Not travel to spas or resorts but travel see the world, its cultures, and its landscapes. Specifically I was enthralled with how other cultures looked at their careers, family life, responsibilities, retirement, and spirituality. It was all so foreign to me, a simple Midwesterner.
After that first trip abroad, whenever I took vacation, it was always to somewhere out of the country and I was never ready to come home when my week or two was up. I would meet people from other countries that were doing long-term travel as if it were a typical right of passage that everyone takes. Yet Americans somehow missed this right of passage that the Brits and the Aussies were enjoying. We were like them in every other way, but why were we so vastly different when it came to work/life balance, and international travel? Were we missing some gene - one that was left on the other side of the world when Columbus made the voyage?
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I spent the remaining two years of my corporate career miserable in my little white box (that office that I had once longed for), tethered to my blackberry, eating lunch at my desk every day, and sitting through meetings hour after hour. I never really loved work before, but now I really didn’t like it. The term ‘golden handcuffs’ all of a sudden became extremely meaningful to me. There had to be a way to step off the career merry-go-round, even if it was only for a little bit. I started squirreling away my money buying time; time that I would cash in when I took my career break.
I left on a plane from New York to Africa awash in emotions. I was equally scared and excited about what awaited me over the next year. Yet the thought of living out of one suitcase was probably what terrified me the most, and where would I find myself at the end of my career break? Regardless of these fears, this was my mini-retirement; I was confident I’d figure out my next steps by the end. After all, taking this career break was the best demonstration of someone that was willing to take risks and make things happen – something I could easily put a positive spin on when I was job searching again.
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My journey took me to new cultures and countries. I lived with locals, took language immersion classes, stayed in villages, dined on rat, stroked live tigers out in the wild, rode elephants, went on safari, scaled mountains (yet sadly I didn’t make it to the summit of Kilimanjaro), learned to sail, studied at cooking schools, traveled with photojournalists, and most importantly became closer to my family and friends through the documentation of my travels via my blog. Along my journey, my plans changed. I discovered a desire to travel within developing countries and I rearranged my itinerary to go to India, Morocco, Egypt, Laos and China. I volunteered in India for a month and discovered a new love; teaching.
My career break lasted for 16 months, yet in reality, it’s still in motion as I am now changing my career and taking the ‘road less traveled’ once again into travel writing, photography, and the world of living abroad teaching English as a second language. In addition, I’m taking the opportunity to inspire and assist other corporate Americans realize that it’s ok to get out of the rat race for a bit and take a break (don’t worry, it’s not necessary to eat rat like I did!).
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My outlook has changed; I feel the corporate merry-go-round is still turning whether I’m on it or not. The important thing to realize is that there are a million different merry-go-rounds you can get on; it doesn’t have to be the one that everyone else is riding. I can hop back on at any time, or maybe, I may have just realized that life can truly be whatever you want it to be. Sometimes you just have to take the first leap.
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Leah on Mon, 6th Jun 2011 8:12 am
I really enjoyed reading your post. I am thirty-two soon and have itchy feet that are ready to try out foreign soils.
It is a fear of leaving the security of the day to day grind of paying the bills and living a safe and non-challenging way of life that has put me on hold for some time.
I hope (as it has I) your post will inspire others to go and follow their bliss – Leah 🙂
Patricia GW on Mon, 6th Jun 2011 8:54 am
Travel and experiencing a new culture really has put it into perspective, and filled that void with purpose (and joy).
In three weeks I’ll be moving to Paris myself for one month. I have the same feeling – the incredible surreal realization that I’m going to be living there…. it’s thrilling!!
Abby on Mon, 6th Jun 2011 2:11 pm
Oh, Jenny! Escargot isn’t palatable — it’s delicious! I love your writing style; it’s so fun and energetic. Can you believe how far we’ve come? Everyone, Jenny and I were in the exact same industry and have known each other online and via work emails for years and years. But we’ve only met once, many, many years ago. And one of those jobs she was sleeping next to her BlackBerry for was one I’d just left. And now she’s 33 and living abroad, just like I was last year. Kindred spirits. Jenny, you’re a true inspiration — I can’t wait to see how your adventure unfolds!
Debbie Beardsley on Mon, 6th Jun 2011 3:22 pm
Your life in Paris sounds ideal. It is nice to read about people who follow their dreams instead of wishing they had! Enjoy the rest of your journey.
Terriaw on Tue, 7th Jun 2011 1:40 pm
Wow, fabulous and well said! I love your new outlook on like. After experiencing career burnout and feeling a little lost and purposeless lately, you have encouraged me. I look forward to seeing Paris someday!
Jenny on Tue, 7th Jun 2011 6:50 pm
merci for all the sweet comments! @abby we are soooo kindred spirits! well except when it comes to our differing feelings on escargot…;) and congrats patricia on the move! thrilling indeed!
shawna on Thu, 9th Jun 2011 1:32 am
you’ve reawakened my travel bug. must. return. to. france. (someday.) eat a croissant for me!
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G. Michael Schneider on Sun, 19th Jun 2011 3:36 pm
I am a firm believer in living and working overseas, just as you described. However, many of us actually like our jobs and our homes and are simply looking to renew and refresh our lives, not change it. However, you can have the same type of cultural experience without having to reach into your own wallet and without having to quit your day job–by taking what I call a “working vacation.” My wife and I have done this 15 separate times, from Australia to Zimbabwe, Turket to Tibet, Mauritius to Mongolia. I describe how to do it in my blog otherguysdime.wordpress.com and via Twitter at @otherguysdime. Learn how to have fun without having to have burn any of your bridges behind you.