Dominique Doron - Finding a Way to Make it Happen
Dominique Doron took a 2-month career break in the beginning of 2009. She shares with us how she came to make this life-changing decision, the anxieties she faced in doing so, and how she ended up spending it volunteering in Ghana.
[singlepic=1473,200,,,right]MAKING THE DECISION
From Alternative Spring Breaks in college, to working for a non-profit in NYC, I have always tried to find time to volunteer. Traveling has also been a hobby of mine, although while working full-time, travel usually means a week of vacation here or there - not the culturally fulfilling experience I long for.
While working at Marie Claire as an events coordinator, I met some filmmakers who gave up their jobs and devoted their lives to making a difference in the lives of young Cambodian women. I was so moved by their bravery and dedication, yet felt a sadness come over me because I didn't foresee an opportunity in my life to make a similar impact in the world.
I was married, needed to work full-time, and didn't have any money to travel, but I quickly decided that if travel and volunteerism was important to me, that I would find a way to make it happen. Within a week, I decided I would quit my job to spend a few months volunteering in Africa. I wasn't sure what I would do, where I would go, or how I would afford it, but I had a plan and started doing some research.
FACING ANXIETIES
Prior to my two-months in Ghana, I hadn't spent more than one week in any single country. I had vacationed with my husband in Italy, Israel, Egypt, Greece, Spain, Costa Rica, Mexico, and the Caribbean. But, I had never traveled alone, and I had never been in a country long enough to immerse myself in the culture. Part of my goal was to be in another country long enough to feel as though I were living there, not just visiting.
My biggest concern was how I would afford the trip. I spent six weeks fund raising, during which I raised over $4000 from family, friends, and co-workers. Having support is definitely helpful.
I was married, needed to work full-time, and didn't have any money to travel, but I quickly decided that if travel and volunteerism was important to me, that I would find a way to make it happen.
I felt slightly anxious about quitting my job during a recession, finding work when I got back, and being separated from my husband for two months. I left my job on good terms, reached out to professional contacts before I left (letting them know I'd be back and looking for work) spent as much time with my husband as I could before I left, and left my home life in order to ease the responsibilities on my husband. I definitely felt prepared, which eased any anxiety I was having. Mostly, I was excited!
[singlepic=1472,200,,,right]WHERE TO GO & WHAT TO DO
I did an incredible amount of research. I talked to as many people as I could about countries they had visited, organizations they had gone through, and how they afforded it. One of the biggest decisions for me was deciding what organization to use. I had limited funds and cost was a major issue, yet as a female traveling alone, I wanted to be sure I chose a reputable organization that provided support and guidance. I also spent a lot of time choosing a country. I researched everything from language, customs, and politics, to foods, cost of living, and climate.
I had a pretty good idea that I wanted to work with kids, and chose an orphanage because I wanted to care for young children and babies. And as much as I would have liked to learn a new language, I figured I would have a more fulfilling experience with children if I could communicate clearly with them. I decided on Ghana because it was English-speaking and had a reputation of being welcoming, safe, friendly, and politically stable.
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Leah on Mon, 6th Jun 2011 8:12 am
I really enjoyed reading your post. I am thirty-two soon and have itchy feet that are ready to try out foreign soils.
It is a fear of leaving the security of the day to day grind of paying the bills and living a safe and non-challenging way of life that has put me on hold for some time.
I hope (as it has I) your post will inspire others to go and follow their bliss – Leah 🙂
Patricia GW on Mon, 6th Jun 2011 8:54 am
Travel and experiencing a new culture really has put it into perspective, and filled that void with purpose (and joy).
In three weeks I’ll be moving to Paris myself for one month. I have the same feeling – the incredible surreal realization that I’m going to be living there…. it’s thrilling!!
Abby on Mon, 6th Jun 2011 2:11 pm
Oh, Jenny! Escargot isn’t palatable — it’s delicious! I love your writing style; it’s so fun and energetic. Can you believe how far we’ve come? Everyone, Jenny and I were in the exact same industry and have known each other online and via work emails for years and years. But we’ve only met once, many, many years ago. And one of those jobs she was sleeping next to her BlackBerry for was one I’d just left. And now she’s 33 and living abroad, just like I was last year. Kindred spirits. Jenny, you’re a true inspiration — I can’t wait to see how your adventure unfolds!
Debbie Beardsley on Mon, 6th Jun 2011 3:22 pm
Your life in Paris sounds ideal. It is nice to read about people who follow their dreams instead of wishing they had! Enjoy the rest of your journey.
Terriaw on Tue, 7th Jun 2011 1:40 pm
Wow, fabulous and well said! I love your new outlook on like. After experiencing career burnout and feeling a little lost and purposeless lately, you have encouraged me. I look forward to seeing Paris someday!
Jenny on Tue, 7th Jun 2011 6:50 pm
merci for all the sweet comments! @abby we are soooo kindred spirits! well except when it comes to our differing feelings on escargot…;) and congrats patricia on the move! thrilling indeed!
shawna on Thu, 9th Jun 2011 1:32 am
you’ve reawakened my travel bug. must. return. to. france. (someday.) eat a croissant for me!
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G. Michael Schneider on Sun, 19th Jun 2011 3:36 pm
I am a firm believer in living and working overseas, just as you described. However, many of us actually like our jobs and our homes and are simply looking to renew and refresh our lives, not change it. However, you can have the same type of cultural experience without having to reach into your own wallet and without having to quit your day job–by taking what I call a “working vacation.” My wife and I have done this 15 separate times, from Australia to Zimbabwe, Turket to Tibet, Mauritius to Mongolia. I describe how to do it in my blog otherguysdime.wordpress.com and via Twitter at @otherguysdime. Learn how to have fun without having to have burn any of your bridges behind you.