Staying in Touch: Keeping Connected

[singlepic=1359,200,,,right]You are a long way from home, you’ve been on the road now for a while, it’s the holidays and you miss the familiarity of home, family, and friends. It’s ok to admit it, but what are you going to do about it? There are plenty of ways to stay in touch while you are on your career break. I was lucky enough to never really get homesick, but I also was lucky enough to always be connected to my friends and family even though I was frequently in remote countries and areas.

Email:
I had a large email list of friends and family that I created before I left and constantly added to it. I periodically sent out updates on my where-abouts and latest adventures - an easy way to stay in touch a lot of people at once. Plus, don’t be too proud to beg for emails, I frequently asked people to write me so that it would feel as if I were more connected to ‘home’.

The obvious question you may be wondering, though, is how accessible is email while you are traveling. I found that even in the most remote areas of Egypt, Tanzania, Laos, and Borneo there were internet cafes. Granted, just because there is an internet café, that doesn’t mean that it is good equipment or a good connection. Many internet cafes were the cemeteries of pc’s I had used back in 1992! You wonder where that old IBM 386SX went? No doubt it’s in a dodgy internet café in Egypt or India.

You can normally check your email with some success, as long as you have a lot of patience and there isn’t a power cut. Downloading video or uploading photos is another thing; these processes can take excruciatingly long and sometimes you have to try it in another location.

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Travel Blogs:
There are a ton of free travel blogging solutions out there. Blogs are a great way to stay in touch because you only have to update your stories and photos once and anyone can go out and see what great travel adventure you’ve been on lately! Plus, it’s a great way to document your travel adventures as you go. It will be memories that last forever. Some blogs even allow you to download your entire blog and pictures and make a book out of it.

I used a BootsnAll travel blog. It was free to use and more than adequate for my uses. There are many different kinds of travel blogs out there - you just need to find one whose layout and features you like and get started! [singlepic=1229,250,,,left]

Here is a short list of some other blogging options worth checking out:

Travelpod | GetJealous | Real Travel

Or you can simply use any blogging software such as eblogger  or Wordpress.

Internet Phone Calls:
My preferred way of keeping in touch is with Skype. No, that’s not a typo - that’s the future. Skype’s popularity has made it into our mainstream vocabulary now, I often find myself saying “Let’s Skype tomorrow.” Or “I tried Skyping you, but you didn’t answer!” Skype lets you make free calls over the internet to anyone else who also has the service. It's a free, easy to download software application.[singlepic=1227,200,,,right]

Internet cafes always have it loaded on their computers so you can expect to be able to use it anywhere. You can make free calls to people with the service, or simply open an account with $10 via credit card and then you can call land lines and cell phones around the world for about 2 cents a minute – a bargain! The call quality is good and it also has a simple chat feature and the ability to do video calling.

There are many applications like this in the market these days. The Indie Travel Podcast did a great show on this recently with a lot of great information about the choices out there in the world of Internet calling.

Travel Partners:
[singlepic=1228,200,,,left]I didn’t always travel alone. Instead I gave my friends my itinerary and said “come meet me on the road!” I was surprised at how many people took me up on this offer. I had many friends and family use their 2 weeks of vacation to travel halfway around the world and travel with me for a few weeks. This was my favorite way to stay in touch as nothing beats face to face contact. You may be surprised at who will drop everything and come see you, but you’ll never know until you ask!

Finally, don’t forget to grab English newspapers and magazines whenever you can. Most larger cities have international versions of Time or Newsweek that helped me keep informed on world news when I felt like it. Also if you are carrying your iPod and can synch it, I highly recommend downloading news podcasts. I stayed in touch with NYC by downloading the daily NY Times Front Page podcast.

So – even though you may feel alone out there, you aren’t! Home is only a quick internet café away!

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9 Comments on "A Year in Paris"

  1. Leah on Mon, 6th Jun 2011 8:12 am 

    I really enjoyed reading your post. I am thirty-two soon and have itchy feet that are ready to try out foreign soils.
    It is a fear of leaving the security of the day to day grind of paying the bills and living a safe and non-challenging way of life that has put me on hold for some time.
    I hope (as it has I) your post will inspire others to go and follow their bliss – Leah 🙂

  2. Patricia GW on Mon, 6th Jun 2011 8:54 am 

    Travel and experiencing a new culture really has put it into perspective, and filled that void with purpose (and joy).

    In three weeks I’ll be moving to Paris myself for one month. I have the same feeling – the incredible surreal realization that I’m going to be living there…. it’s thrilling!!

  3. Abby on Mon, 6th Jun 2011 2:11 pm 

    Oh, Jenny! Escargot isn’t palatable — it’s delicious! I love your writing style; it’s so fun and energetic. Can you believe how far we’ve come? Everyone, Jenny and I were in the exact same industry and have known each other online and via work emails for years and years. But we’ve only met once, many, many years ago. And one of those jobs she was sleeping next to her BlackBerry for was one I’d just left. And now she’s 33 and living abroad, just like I was last year. Kindred spirits. Jenny, you’re a true inspiration — I can’t wait to see how your adventure unfolds!

  4. Debbie Beardsley on Mon, 6th Jun 2011 3:22 pm 

    Your life in Paris sounds ideal. It is nice to read about people who follow their dreams instead of wishing they had! Enjoy the rest of your journey.

  5. Terriaw on Tue, 7th Jun 2011 1:40 pm 

    Wow, fabulous and well said! I love your new outlook on like. After experiencing career burnout and feeling a little lost and purposeless lately, you have encouraged me. I look forward to seeing Paris someday!

  6. Jenny on Tue, 7th Jun 2011 6:50 pm 

    merci for all the sweet comments! @abby we are soooo kindred spirits! well except when it comes to our differing feelings on escargot…;) and congrats patricia on the move! thrilling indeed!

  7. shawna on Thu, 9th Jun 2011 1:32 am 

    you’ve reawakened my travel bug. must. return. to. france. (someday.) eat a croissant for me!

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  9. G. Michael Schneider on Sun, 19th Jun 2011 3:36 pm 

    I am a firm believer in living and working overseas, just as you described. However, many of us actually like our jobs and our homes and are simply looking to renew and refresh our lives, not change it. However, you can have the same type of cultural experience without having to reach into your own wallet and without having to quit your day job–by taking what I call a “working vacation.” My wife and I have done this 15 separate times, from Australia to Zimbabwe, Turket to Tibet, Mauritius to Mongolia. I describe how to do it in my blog otherguysdime.wordpress.com and via Twitter at @otherguysdime. Learn how to have fun without having to have burn any of your bridges behind you.

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